The reasons why a relationship starts tend to be the same in which it ends .
I'm not being original , many intellectuals have written about this,
but we still think that two people are united and separated by lofty motives .
Unite because of an overwhelming love
and move away because of an overwhelming fight.
The attraction takes the smallest details.
The way her smile that creates a dimple in his cheek.
The way he wears his hat turned backwards .
The way she says goodbye on the phone.
The way he touches her hair.
The fact that they like the same movies and hate the same songs .
The tattoo on his shoulder.
The tender way with her girlfriends.
Sensitive poems he writes.
Small patches of a quilt that will be sewn, throughout the relationship.
Until one day the quilt is ready,
heat for a while and then begins to unravel.
Infidelity
fights and beatings usually hasten the end
but they are not the real culprits for the demise of the relationship .
Radical consequences are just those little wear ranging,
undermining silently domestic routines.
He does not stand the crazy way she has to trash her corn in her dish.
She can't stand the way he keeps changing channels in the remote,
without stopping in a channel.
He finds ridiculous the way she ties the laces on the shoes.
She hates when he combines the wrong verb.
He thinks her perfume stinks.
She thinks he casually brushes his teeth.
He can not bear a good morning with her changing moods.
She can not stand his snoring.
He wanted her to stop smoking.
She wanted him to stop being late.
They wanted magic : that they are keeping themselves.
Solution? If I had one , would not be here ... I would be rich ...
Mergen@January 2014
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